How to win and keep the love of a man whose heart has been broken before

Have you ever discovered that the man you want to be in a relationship with is someone whose heart has been broken before? What do you do in such a situation? How do you break through the walls that he has built around his heart? This is a practical situation. He often makes girls cry. You know that he has everything it takes to be a good husband to you, so much so that you find him attached to your dream of a good and happy home. But because some “girl” has treated him badly and has broken his heart, he has decided not to fall in love again.

How do you win and keep the love of a man whose heart has been broken before? How do you find your way to her heart and assure her that you are not a heartbreaker? How do you make him believe that girls are not the same? And how do you make him feel safe with you? Here’s another expounded practice on how to win the love of a heartbroken man.

The first step is friendship. Since he is not ready for another love affair, he can start a relationship on a note of friendship. Do not approach him and ask him to be your friend, most likely he sees you as another demon who comes to break his heart. The easiest way is to go to him through your friends or siblings. These people have liked and empathized with him. Believe in them. Seeing yourself as a friend of a friend, brother or sister means to him that, after all, you are not harmful, at least as a friend.

When you have managed to become his friend, try asking him about his past relationship and empathizing with him. Condemn the hurtful deeds of his ex-girlfriend and promote the ideals that would have sustained that relationship. If you have been hurt before, tell how it happened and how you recovered. This is a good way to start a friendship.

Think about possible means to help him recover from painful memories of the previous relationship. Get her used to being with a girl again. Invite him to places where he can talk and have fun.

Give him a call from time to time and text him every now and then just to let him know that you appreciate him as a good friend. Don’t forget to buy her gifts on her birthday anniversary and other memorable days. Don’t buy him casual gifts that suggest he means a lot to you and that you love him. With these gestures you will discover that he is on the way to love again. And before you know it, it’ll complement your efforts and explicitly ask you out.

Once you start a loving relationship between the two of you, avoid everything that happened in your previous relationship. This is the main way to catch and hold it.