The man cannot maintain his erection during oral sex

Question: The last time I had oral sex I lost my erection and now it happens frequently. Why is this happening and what can I do to stop it?

Response from Dr. Trina Read
This can be a very common experience. As fast as blood fills your penis to make it erect, blood can drain just as fast leaving it flaccid. In fact, many men also lose their erections during sexual intercourse.

You see that your brain, not your penis, is actually your main sexual organ; so when you are stressed or worried, your level of arousal will decrease. There are a number of reasons why this happens.

For example, it may be hard to maintain an erection if you’re thinking, “Is it big enough?” “What if I ejaculate too fast?” or worse, “What if I can’t ejaculate?”

And if he loses his erection once, as he has during oral sex, he begins to worry that it will happen again. Creating a nasty flabby cycle.

Although pharmaceutical companies would love for you to take a pill to resolve your limp, this is generally not necessary.

When you are receiving oral sex, try to focus on the wonderful feelings and sensations. When you focus on pleasure, you won’t lose that erection.

great sex advice
Kegel exercises are not just for women. Men also need to exercise this muscle group to maintain a strong erection throughout their lives. So guys, be sure to do at least 30 sets of Kegels every day to maintain excellent muscle tone.