Spiritual relationships: five reasons why they turn bad
Bad relationships are too common. At first, it often looks very promising, but then it falls apart. It’s a mystery why some relationships turn sour, until you consider the spiritual side of things.
Mystics suggest that life is primarily about spiritual lessons. While relationships may not always give you what you want on an ego level, spiritual growth is often part of the plan.
Here are five spiritual and worldly reasons why people experience terrible relationships.
Past life connections and karma
The laws of reincarnation and karma lead to specific life experiences and many of them tend to be relationship oriented. By the way, although many people misuse the word karma, it is often linked to reincarnation. Past life ties, including toxic ones, create current life ties. You’ve been together before and sometimes you need to balance the scales.
That inexplicable initial draw may include hidden karma waiting to be developed. Karma, which can also be good, can be immensely complicated and is often more than just “you left him in a past life, so now he leaves you.” The experience could be due to many reasons, and they have probably been together before in several lifetimes.
Shared mission
A higher, shared purpose, such as having a child or a job that will have a significant impact on others, could be part of your relationship plan. Once you really know each other, what if the compatibility is terrible? On a soul level, they both knew before incarnating that their combined energies were necessary to achieve the goal and that it would be worth smiling and enduring until the mission is accomplished.
Early life programming and problems
Although early life experiences and trauma certainly affect later life relationships and the reasons for them may be considered more mundane than spiritual, our findings show that central childhood events and circumstances (including good and bad) ) are often contracted and agreed upon by our staff. souls before birth.
“If you have a suffocating father, the effect it can apparently have on a child is to give them, in equal doses, a feeling of too much self-worth, because they are mommy’s little princess or prince, and low self-esteem. It affects future relationships.”
Hugh grant
Fear of being alone and personal synchronization
Many people dislike the idea of being single so much that they enter into a relationship just to avoid loneliness. Each person’s personal time is different, and sometimes their collective time is not conducive to life’s love affairs, but rather to work, family, or other concerns. When you have a horrible love life moment, reject the signs that it is just not the time to have good love life experiences now and force a relationship, you could get into trouble. It’s like trying to plant your garden in winter.
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“If you feel lonely when you are alone, you are in bad company.”
Jean paul sartre
Change of relationships
Just as you can leave a friendship behind, it is possible to get over a love relationship, especially when you consider how people change at different rates and for different reasons. Lifelong mutual compatibility in all areas of life, including sex, is not as common as people want to believe. If you resist natural change, the result will be unhappiness, so it pays to go with the flow and accept that sometimes circumstances change.
“We are very reluctant to change, although we know that all things change and especially our relationships are determined to change.”
Nick nolte
If your partner is detrimental to your well-being and the bond is irreparable, it is time to end it. However, if the connection is relatively symbiotic, be careful not to end it for the allure of a new romance like those portrayed in Hollywood movies.
It seems that refusing to accept your partner for who he is and comparing your relationship to the ideal relationship is a pervasive problem. It’s easy to find fault with this kind of thinking. But nobody is perfect and the perfect relationship is an illusion. Consider yourself very lucky if you are in a mutually rewarding connection, and luckier if you are humble enough to appreciate personal differences and strong enough to love unconditionally.
“There is so much good in the worst of us, and so much bad in the best of us, that it is up to any of us to find fault with the rest of us.”
James Truslow Adams
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