Choosing the right lingerie for the first date

The first date is the most important date, plain and simple. It’s your one chance to make that first lasting impression and the one outfit you’ll remember many years to come. Appearance plays a very important role in the first impression. Most women will go through their closet once, if not twice, looking for the perfect outfit that will scream to them from beyond the mirror: “I’m the one, wear me! I’m perfect.” Women spend a lot of time deciding what clothes to wear, but twice as much is involved in the lingerie thought process. It’s actually such a contentious decision that you can almost stress over it.

Underwear for a first date can be very tricky. You don’t want to look like you’ve dressed for the occasion and planned for him to take a look at your perfectly matching undergarments; however, you need to make sure you are well prepared if he actually does it. Men want women to look sexy without knowing that they tried too hard. Many women will naturally gravitate towards black lingerie because it is the safe and sexy option. This may or may not work for you. Some men will automatically love it and won’t think twice, but others think black lingerie and sex pop right into their brain. If they see that you’ve chosen to wear black lingerie on a first date, they might get the impression that you definitely planned for that moment to happen.

Matching lingerie is essential. While you don’t want to look like you’ve given it a lot of thought, you also don’t want to look like a train wreck. Most men prefer underwear that is simple and feminine. Color, pattern, and that cute bow items are great. The lingerie you choose for a first date can also depend on the date. If he takes you skiing or possibly to a BBQ or somewhere very casual then you probably want to go for very simple but pretty lingerie or else you will definitely look like you tried too hard. Men love boy shorts, so for casual dates why not try a cute pair of cotton shorts with a matching bra? You can wear a matching set with stripes, polka dots, butterflies, and fun vibrant colors to show your flirty side.

For a more traditional date like dinner or a show, you may need to glam it up a bit. Most likely, cotton is probably not acceptable in this situation. A bit of lace or satin would be nice. Silver, burgundy and navy blue tones add elegance. You want to look like a sexy woman under those clothes, but it is not an easy task to have the privilege to see.

Whatever you wear, you need to feel comfortable. Using it around the house first helps a bit, sitting and standing is recommended. You don’t want a pair of panties that shift on you every time you move, nor do you want a bra that falls off when you bend over. Try your movement lingerie and make sure it works for you. If you feel sexy under your clothes, it will shine. There’s nothing sexier than a confident woman and knowing what’s under your clothes can give you that extra boost to make the perfect first impression.