Your friends could be misleading you
Your friends are your support system, you know they will always be there for you no matter what, they are your shoulder to cry on and listen to you pour out your broken heart after your breakup.
You know deep down that they are the ones who will help you get through this difficult and painful time and all they want to do is help ease this pain.
You love your friends so much, but they might be leading you in the wrong direction because each friend has their own opinion of what you should do to get your guy back and if you really should get him back.
You have been given time to break down, get depressed and get drunk on your sorrows for a while, which is a process you have to go through.
Now they feel it’s time for you to get up and start slowly rebuilding your life. At this point your mind is very cloudy and you are not thinking clearly. You don’t want to offend any of them, so listen to them.
• They tell you not to worry, just wait, he’ll soon realize what he’s missing and crawl back to you.
• They talk badly about your ex, they tell you that they were never very good together and that it’s time to move on to someone better, which doesn’t make you feel good at all.
• They say you should go to clubs and parties to find someone else and get in touch with all these random people that you would never think twice about because they are not your type for one night stands with a lot of alcohol. to remove the bread.
All of this is not good for you or your reputation, this could only end up making you feel even worse.
When none of the above works, they’ll talk some sense into you, they’ll tell you, since it’s being straight with the hard truth, which part of it you’re not going to like and it’ll make you fight them, they’ll tell you. what you did wrong in the relationship and what your ex did wrong and what you both need to do to move on.
The first step is to cut off all contact with your ex for at least a month.
During this time you need to control your emotions, yes go out with your friends and have fun, but it doesn’t have to include a lot of alcohol and one night stands, have a hobby or do something you enjoy, something positive. which will boost your confidence, your ex will soon hear or see that you look and seem happier and will become curious and want to know more.