Top 10 Reasons to Become a Swinger
Swinging is often referred to as “the swinging lifestyle” or simply “the lifestyle.” Couples who, together, agree to engage in casual sex with people outside of their primary relationships are called swingers. These encounters can include a wide range of sexual activities between three or more people.
Couples who enjoy swinging and frequent swinging clubs say they love their partners but crave “recreational sex.” They believe that having sex with others is purely recreational and in no way diminishes the loving relationship they have with their spouse.
So where in such a relationship are the secrets that only two can share? Doesn’t having “interchangeable” sexual partners take away from personal intimacy and romance outside of the bedroom?
Not according to swingers. They maintain that partner swapping allows them to explore their sexual boundaries together while strengthening their mutual love and respect for one another.
So if you and your spouse are considering moving from fantasy to reality, here are the Top 10 reasons to become swingers.
- Because they both want to experience sex with other people but they don’t want the guilt of “cheating.”
- Explore and learn new techniques that different sexual partners can offer.
- To fulfill your mutual fantasies.
- To satisfy your voyeuristic tendencies.
- To explore your bisexual curiosities.
- Have group sex in a safe and controlled environment, whether it’s a “house party” or a swingers club.
- To enjoy multipartner sex with like-minded people without fear of being judged.
- To make new friends and experience an exciting “alternative lifestyle”.
- To experience those long-lost tantalizing feelings of “lust” and rejuvenate your dull and routine sex life.
- To share a totally pleasant and uninhibited “liberation” from the stress of everyday life that includes your partner.
A word of caution…
Before you try swinging, be absolutely sure of your own desires and the strength of your relationship with your partner. Make sure you are emotionally prepared to share your partner with someone else or you may face unexpected feelings of jealousy!