Teach your kids how to win back an ex lover

The vast majority of parents do not accept what I consider an indisputable fact: that they are responsible for their children’s misdeeds. How will you not know that your son is involved in drugs and is even trying to commit suicide or has tried to commit suicide because an ex-lover left him a few weeks ago? You need to teach your children how to win back an ex-lover they still love instead of committing suicide.

If you read this story published in the June 27, 2008 issue of The WalesOnline “15-year-old boy hanged himself after breaking up with girlfriend.” This teenager could be your son who couldn’t handle the emotions of breaking up with his girlfriend. Aside from this story, around 21 Bridgend County youths are believed to have committed suicide since early last year over similar relationship breakups before or after Valentine’s Day.

Many young people want to do what they see their parents do but have been told not to do. And most of them want to grow wild oats. This generation of young people simply won’t accept logic like “Do what I say, not what I do” or “You’re not old enough for that.” Just spend time teaching your children how to win back an ex-lover or a girlfriend or boyfriend who decides to break up. Fortunately for us, there are already simple techniques and resources on how to win back an ex-lover who may say she doesn’t have the knowledge.

One of your jobs as a parent is to get your children to do well: in school, in relationships, in business, in marriage, in the fear of the Lord, etc. He hasn’t done his job as a parent if his child commits suicide or drugs because of a failed relationship with a girlfriend or boyfriend. It is his responsibility to teach his children how to win back an ex-lover or how to end a relationship gracefully.

There are many unique romantic ideas to get an ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend back. You just have to teach your children some of these ideas and prevent them from adopting evil vices such as drugs, smoking and suicide.

Here are some techniques you can teach your children to use to win back an ex girlfriend or boyfriend:

Let your children know that whenever they have broken up with their lovers, they should give themselves time to heal the wounds that are still open before they make any moves to win their lovers back. The time away from that person will make him start to miss you a lot. Resist any pressure to call or contact your ex. Relax and act like they are not important, you will be surprised when your ex lover starts looking for you.

After you’ve given them plenty of time, maybe a month, call them informally. You will be surprised how much they will want to hear from you depending on how or what caused the break up.

Parents, remember this: “You will not be judged by what you do, but by what you have made your children do.” Teach them to be a good person in every way. Teach your kids how to win back an ex lover gracefully today.