Male chastity tips: from an ultra-strict woman

Perhaps the best male chastity advice I can give to any man who is seriously considering asking his wife to lock him into orgasm denial is this: be careful what you wish for! And this is …

Male chastity tips

From a woman who really knows what she’s talking about as I live a 24/7 lifestyle with my husband, John.

You see, most men have elaborate fantasy in their heads, often planned over many years and down to a remarkable level of detail.

But there is a fundamental flaw in your thinking that will now reveal itself: in all your fantasies, you fantasize about what you want and you get it; but in reality, you get what she gives you.

And believe me, even though most women are ambivalent at best, and even reluctant to play the game of male chastity, when you start to experience the pleasure you get from keeping yourself locked up … well .. Just don’t say I didn’t warn you!

Now that’s all a little tongue on cheek, because it is important to make sure that you both enter with your eyes wide open. So here are three pieces of the best male chastity advice you’ll ever get:

1. Establish ground rules. This is not the same as covering from below. It is to agree on the rules of the game before starting. And you really need to think about this seriously, if you say ‘Can you keep me in permanent orgasm denial‘, then make sure that’s what you mean. Paradoxically, setting the rules this way, while it may seem boxy and artificial, actually makes it easier to relax later.
2. Be serious but not solemn. Male chastity is supposed to be fun for both of you and brings you closer together. So make sure you keep checking that everything is going well for both of you, because if it doesn’t work for both of you, in the end it won’t work for either of you.
3. Do what YOU want, not what people tell you. This is an important one to me. When John and I started this and I was looking for information, I was struck by how rude and aggressive some people could be telling others how to live their lives, saying, in effect, “if you dont do it is way, are you doing it incorrect“But the truth is, anything that works for both of you is, by definition, the right way, because it’s YOUR life and no one else has the right to vote!

Now if you surf the internet and look at the blogs, you will come across a lot of hype, nonsense and outright lies, all disguised as “male chastity advice”.

But if you’re looking for advice, then you know it makes sense to get it from a healthy, no-nonsense, and genuine 24/7 lifestyle keychain that lives day after day today, right?