How to get your boyfriend back when it was your mistake
You made some mistakes and that’s why he left you, it’s not uncommon for someone like you to realize that you really loved him, and now it’s too late? No, it probably isn’t, polls have shown that if only one of you had spoken up, the breakup might not have happened. So you made a couple of mistakes, you still love him, don’t let the mistakes you made stop you from trying, you just need to hold back a bit so you can figure out how to get your boyfriend back.
There are a few things you need to work out on the way to reconciliation, it’s nothing to worry about, just think about these few things. Take a little time to sort out the breakup in your mind, how much depends on how bad the breakup was, just be honest with yourself and when you’re ready and contact him.
If you had a stormy relationship then there is hope because storms are caused by passion and passion is what will bring you back together. It may take a little longer than if you’ve been in a steady, steady relationship, but if you’re honest with each other about why, then you can probably find a way to win your boyfriend back.
The healing stage after a breakup is usually estimated to be about a month without any contact, don’t try to rush this because both of you need time to calm down and see how you feel. Since you are the one trying to win your boyfriend back, it is really up to you how long to wait before calling him, most of the time if you rush at this stage he may not talk to you at all.
Use this time to go over the mistakes you made, figure out why they happened, and then put them behind you, just be prepared to talk about them when you meet again. Forgive yourself and don’t hold back your feelings about these mistakes, we all make mistakes as we grow in a relationship, so forgive but don’t forget, then you are ready if a similar situation arises in the future.
By the time you are ready to contact him, you should have the mistakes, the emotions that lead to the mistakes resolved and under your control, so go ahead and talk to him, you have nothing to lose by trying to win your boyfriend back.