Hotwife Rules: 3 Tips for a Successful Hotwife
Hotwife rules won’t mean much to you if you’re in the minority of cases where the lifestyle is part of a larger female-dominated relationship where the only rule seems to be “she can do what she likes“. But for the majority, those who see hotwiving as something to deepen and enhance a relationship as equals there are…
Hotwife Rules: 3 Tips for a Successful Hotwife
Because it can’t work for just one of you, and if it doesn’t work for one of you, then it won’t work for either of you in the long run… and I don’t think we can underestimate the hotwifing issues some couples run into. .
- Remember, while it may not just be about sex, your man is the ‘primary’.. In other words, no matter how strong and resilient a man is, his wife has sexual relations with one or more men. is it’s going to have an effect on him and sometimes he’ll want or need to be reassured. Some women get angry and catty at this point, and that doesn’t help. Remember that he is doing something important for you, so it won’t hurt to be considerate.
- He must be able to say ‘no’. For most men, the thought of not having control over this is unbearable. For his peace of mind and your long-term happiness, it’s important for him to feel that if he asks you to give up that lifestyle, he can, and you will, do as he asks (imagine if it were the other way around how you would feel if he didn’t give up). sleeping with other women). You could argue with some justification that it’s his fault for starting you down the hot-wives path, but that’s by the way. The fact is that if he is hurt and you ignore it, your marriage willpower suffer.
- Don’t lie or keep things to yourself. Often part of the ‘deal’, if you will, is that the woman sleeps with other men, and her man listens to all the details or even watches. But sometimes the woman wants to have her cake and eat it, she will shut up when he asks about it. Worse still is lying and ‘handcuffing’ behind her back (and that’s really crossing the line into infidelity, then). Even if you feel embarrassed at first to discuss your sexual escapades with your lovers, you can’t do everything your way. It’s only fair that your man gets something out of this too.
My wife, Josselyn, and I have been in the lifestyle for the past 7 years and, aside from a few hiccups, it’s been a lot of fun.
Do you want to discover how easy it is to turn your wife into the hot wife you want her to be?