Beat Him At His Own Game: How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

“I didn’t really see it coming. Our relationship was actually going well. Until he stopped calling and said he needed some space. That left me devastated. But when I found out he had started seeing someone else a week after we broke up I didn’t know what he meant!” shares Leila, 24.

Do Leila’s antics ring a bell? You may have hinted that you want to get back together, and yet the only progress you made was pressuring your boyfriend with another woman. It is time to abandon your desperate attempts and take the steps of a professional. If played successfully, you will catch your ex boyfriend off guard and lull him into your traps again.

First, you have to work on yourself. This applies to both your spiritual and physical well-being. Do not waste time crying over your lost love because this will not do you any good. Instead, stop thinking about the bitter breakup. Pick up a new hobby or go out with your friends. This will help ease your bruised ego. Once you have regained your strength, work to expand your social boundaries. Mingle with new people who share your interests. This will make you feel more secure and comfortable with yourself.

By renewing your confidence, you are well on your way to improving your appearance. Although you don’t have to make drastic changes to your appearance, try to look your best all the time. Since you already feel beautiful on the inside, looking beautiful on the outside should be easy.

By improving your spiritual and physical stature, you will draw people to you. This will throw your ex boyfriend off, as you actually look and do much better without him. He will soon have guilty and insecure thoughts about breaking up with him.

Next, you have to venture out with someone else. Be careful to choose a guy who is very different from your boyfriend; this will work even better if you’re dating someone you don’t like. Doing so will surely catch him off guard and make him wonder if he ever did you any good. In addition, he may also be insecure about your feelings for him because you considered seeing someone who is totally different from him.

Since your ex-boyfriend is already struggling with his own insecurities right now, you are in a very vulnerable position to consider your relationship. Therefore, you have to find ways to meet casually. In those cases, you have to be irresistible and yet be out of their reach. This will leave you more intrigued. It will only take a little while until he finally gives in to his curiosity and goes after you.

So don’t settle for being just another Leila. Play your ex boyfriend’s game and beat him up.