Soul mates and star crossed lovers
I am Gemini, my Partner is Virgo; apparently he should leave me for Scorpio because we have nothing in common. At least this is what the book of the Zodiac says. I hope it keeps me close a little longer. But the question arises whether there are star crossed lovers and soul mates. My answer would be yes and they hang out in the same bar as Santa, the tooth fairy, and the Easter bunny. Okay, I’m a bit cynical, but as a psychic I have to hear a million times a day when Mr. Correct is coming, is he my soulmate? My answer, well, Mr. could hardly do with some work, is he available, will he?
Waiting for Mr. / Mrs. Right is like putting a pumpkin in the driveway and waiting for the Good Fairy to turn it into a sports car that will never happen. Because your spiritual soulmate is not the one who will agree with everything you say, do whatever you want, he / she will not have the same likes and dislikes as you. Ask the Universe for a soulmate and you will get someone who pushes all your buttons, who challenges you on all levels, who will stand in front of you and say no I don’t think so. How do I know this because that is exactly what I got when I asked the universe to send a soulmate my direction.
But interesting enough, I’ve never been more in tune with who I am, I’ve never been more authentic than right now. Through my partner I have been able to see all my dysfunctional behavior patterns and I have been able to grow as a person. They have pushed me to pass my doubts about myself and my greatness.
When you chase Mr. / Mrs. correctly, you are so full of expectations that no one will ever be able to measure up. And here is the interesting thing about them. Will they fit in with my friends, will they be athletic, intelligent, read, will they be able to cook, if they like dogs, etc.? All the valid questions I can add, however, do you realize that the person you are looking for has to be perfect but not you?
What if you asked yourself the same questions?
-Do I have good social skills for intimacy?
-Am I a safe and well adjusted person?
-Am I able to commit to a long-term relationship?
-Why did my last relationship fail and what was my longest relationship?
Mr. / Mrs. Almost needs some work, doesn’t look too bad now! My partner is not perfect despite being a Virgo, but she has a loving, generous and compassionate spirit and a sense of who she is that I respect and admire. We have and will continue to have challenges as we grow up and learn together that it is not going to be the subject that Mills and Boons are based on, but I can tell you that I would not reveal a minute of the time that we have been together.
Here’s a little tip: don’t look for Mr. / Mrs. Fair until you’ve found yourself. Don’t enter a relationship hoping to be soul mates, enter a relationship as friends. Have no expectations, have hopes and dreams for the future.
Disclaimer: For all children, please note that we have confirmed that Santa is home at the North Pole with Mrs. Santa, not some downtown bar, my apologies.